Archive for September, 2016

Taking advantage virtually

Tuesday, September 27th, 2016

QUESTION: Masters, I met a guy last year on the internet and we seemed to have a great mental connection. In the early months, we felt lot of chemistry, but then he started to push me out a little bit. I understand that he wants to be free, but I feel Love in my heart and we get on so well that maybe he is the one. I feel that I’m learning a lot. Don’t know if I’m giving more value than I should be giving. Sometimes, I feel that I’m being used, because I help him with studies and work. When I’m sad and I keep myself away, He seems to have fear that I break contact with him, and tries to make everything ok again. I can’t feel angry for a long time. I’m just trying to keep it going to see what will happen. ~M., Brazil

ANSWER: You are desperate to find a love interest and you have become fixated on your Internet buddy. He led you on in the beginning because he felt your “need” through the messages. The “chemistry” you thought you felt was someone telling you exactly what you wanted to hear. He was setting you up to become dependent on his words so that you would start doing work for him.

The desire to stay free is because he is already committed to someone in the flesh and doesn’t want a lovesick puppy to disturb that in any fashion. You have been following his instructions to the letter and he revels in the control he has over you. If this is sufficient for you to satisfy your need for love, then keep this one-way relationship going.

Your self-esteem is so low that you fear personal contacts. You sense that people will talk about you and disapprove of what you do, say, and wear. It is easier to talk to people from afar. You are trying to keep this going because it is all you have right now. He does fear when you don’t talk for a while because he is using you to do things for him and he doesn’t want to lose you as a resource.

Do yourself a favor and go out with friends to a club or meeting of some kind. Know who you are as an individual, and then you will no longer fear what you think others might say about you. If you don’t feel comfortable with current friends, join a class of some kind – yoga, art, music – and introduce yourself to the real world instead of the cyber world.

Connected to energy

Tuesday, September 27th, 2016

QUESTON: Masters. I’m a middle-aged woman. Since childhood I’ve been able to predict things, see dreams that come true later and have prevented certain things from happening. I’ve always been ill and sickly, from infancy to 12 years or so I had violent epilepsy that consumed my life and then it just stopped. My womb has been taken out and I’ve had back surgery. I studied to be a nurse but now can’t do anything physical. Death has always surrounded me, most my relatives, past companions, dead. I can feel the energies of people and people ALWAYS seek help from me, even strangers. I’ve just had this strong interest and connection to the metaphysical, to the spiritual elements of things. So my question is, could I become a healer? What could my mission on this Earth be? ~Heli, Finland

ANSWER: All souls have the same mission while in a physical form: to learn the lessons they chose before coming, and to get to know exactly what the nature of being a soul entails. Your lessons include physical ailments and understanding that they do not define who you are. Some people with difficulties let the definition of their disease identify who they are and how they interact with those around them. You saw each condition as something to overcome while living your life.

The work you envisioned for your lifetime involves energy and communication between the dimensions. Physical bodies are healed by realigning the various functions of the body to return them to the pattern from which they started. You unconsciously have done this for yourself, and you transmit energy out to others to assist them. In other words, you have been doing healing for quite some time. This ability to transfer energy to others is why strangers are drawn to you – they feel you are a healing spot.

There is no perfect way to balance the body, no one form of “energetic healing.” They all involve the use of universal life-force energy to restructure the misaligned parts. No special training is needed to fulfill this ability. The intention of the person who is activating the energy, as well as the intention of the recipient, determines the degree of shifting, or healing, that occurs.

Those with whom you were close who have transitioned are available to assist you to start to feel the flow of energy. Read a little of the material out there that talks about various methods that have worked for others, and develop your own connection to the flow. Practice, and the skill is yours.

Plagued by past dreams

Tuesday, September 27th, 2016

QUESTION: Masters I have a voice in my head that keeps telling me that a particular man loves me. I was in love with him for several years, but he chose not to pursue a relationship with me. I know now that we will never get together and I am over him and want to move on to be with a man who is right for me; someone who is ready and able to be with me. I don’t understand why I still keep getting messages that he loves me when I am not in love with him anymore and I know he doesn’t want to be with me. Why is this happening? What can I do to stop it as I am becoming frustrated by the senselessness of this situation? ~Genny, Australia

ANSWER: You are still infatuated with this man from your past. Your unconscious knows you put a lot of time and effort into trying to get him to notice you and decide whether or not he returned your interest. You built an imaginary life around him, the house you would have, the children, growing old together. When you see another man, you compare a possible life with him to the life you had imagined you could have with your first love.

You are actually blocking other men from seeing you and taking an interest because of this comparison running in the background. You will not be able to attract and keep another until you clear your yearning for this man. The voice is your dream state, which still sees ways that you can be together. While you think you are no longer in love with him, mostly because you know he has no desire for you, you still spend way too much time engaged in memories.

The first thing you have to do is be more present in the moment. Any time you start thinking about the past, even if it has nothing to do with this man, take an inventory about what you see right in front of you; this will bring you back to the here and now. Observe the trees, the weather, who passes by your house, everything that is happening in the now.

Souls are very powerful, with the ability to manifest what they desire. Normally it is done consciously, but when you have a historical record playing in the background, it can drown out your wishes. Start to put a picture of a desired mate into your mind: his age, his personality characteristics, the type of life you would like to build together. Project this out into the universe, and also let it infiltrate all aspects of your memory, covering over the things you no longer need.

The things that you want or need to experience get drawn to you by what you project as your current dream. Shape what you want and banish the past.