Archive for the ‘Personal Problems’ Category

I hate school

Tuesday, November 14th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters for some reason I hate my college. I just don’t like going or getting involved in any activities related to it. I have been deliberately trying to find positives and convincing myself to like it, but it feels like I am lying to myself. There is lot of hatred even for some of the teachers and people around me many actions done there don’t make sense. It just feels like a hurdle in whatever I want to do (which I am doing more and more of now). Also, I have a fear when I talk to people older than me. What is the reason for this? How to solve these problems? ~S., India

ANSWER: Let’s face it – you are rebelling against the wishes of your family who believe this school is the thing you need to do to be successful in life. The problem is that you have absolutely no interest in the program. You need to sit down and talk to your parents about this. They do not realize the stress this situation is placing you in and the extent of your discomfort.

You are also a loner right now – you are happiest when you are all by yourself and doing what you wish. The teachers and elders that you fear have to do with the fear you also harbor for your parents and other relatives. If you can sense why this fright emerges, you will be able to work your way through it.

Part of this fear originates from a lack of confidence in yourself and your decision-making process. You have always been the “dutiful” little child who didn’t question the dictates of others, and now you are faced with the results of being directed by them. Fellow students irritate you because they are where they want to be and are enjoying this experience that you find so onerous.

You need to figure out what a fantastic person you are and that you have freedom of choice to travel through life. Realize the power and abilities you have inside from your essence of Source energy. You are the same as every other soul having a human experience and need to love yourself for the fact that you are living it every day. Find your voice and power and let others know who you truly are.

Listening to others affecting your choices

Tuesday, November 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters a clairvoyant said to me that I will sell my horse when time is ready for me and my horse. I’m sad because I thought that we will be together till the end and I thought that this horse is my soulmate. Is it really that Easy to see my life? Can I chance my future? I have been always with horses. Do I still have free will? I might Sound crazy, but this is important thing to me. ~Lina, Finland

ANSWER: You, as a soul having a human experience, have complete freedom of choice over what you do in this life. Nothing is pre-determined and unchangeable. Persons who have the ability to connect with the timeline of the universe don’t always get a true sense of the time in relationship to the present. There is no time, as you know it, in the universe – just here, because it records the transit of Earth around the sun. Therefore, “seeing” things may even come from another lifetime and not the present.

It is not easy to see the future because it is constantly changing. With everyone having freedom to make their choices, the future is not set and therefore not very predictable. Examine the statement you were given, taking this fact into consideration. If sometime in the future you needed for some reason to part with your horse, you would do so – but it won’t happen unless you choose that as an option.

Your horse is one of the 2 percent of animals who do have a soul and is from your soul group. You had decided to share a life to be there for each other in times of difficulty. There is no reason to part now. Continue to share, and talk with, this beautiful soul.

Remember, you always have choices. Do only what feels good to you; don’t let the opinions or advice of others sway you away from what resonates with you. This is your journey and you are the one making decisions. Don’t be influenced by the remarks of others who are not living your life.

Finding myself

Tuesday, August 1st, 2017

QUESTION: Masters for years I’ve felt stuck and unhappy in life and unable to figure out how to move forward with even simple things like what type of job to seek. I’ve lost faith in myself, even while trying to be more positive. My upbringing made me fear God so I have trouble asking for spiritual help. My childhood had emotional neglect/abuse that damaged my sense of deserving to get my needs/ wants met. Can you suggest some ways I can connect with source to help me find a gratifying life rather than just resentfully serving my family while out of touch with my own needs/wants/gifts? I want satisfying work using my gifts, to learn to deal with others with confidence and collaboration, not fear. I feel I cannot live this way anymore, cut off from myself and my soul. It’s like I missed the boat for my true
purpose. ~Christina, USA

ANSWER: With all your lessons concerning self-worth, self-confidence, self-love, and trust still very active, to radically change, you will have to start from the beginning. The first step is accepting that you are a piece of the Source energy that is responsible for everything that exists anywhere and everywhere. With that acceptance comes the ability to image the qualities you have at your disposal for creating the life you desire.

Right now, you are inhibited by the belief systems that were bestowed on you by your parents and society. As a child, you accepted these without question and never even imagined that you had the ability to override them and change what they made you believe. These are the automatic responses you encounter in any situation that presents itself to you.

To begin to defuse these, and write your own rules for living, you have to start questioning the way you respond to any stimulus. You need to ask: Does this feel right to me? Is this what I really want to do? If the answer to these questions is a resounding no, then it is time to choose for yourself the actions you take. You are then beginning to rewrite the beliefs controlling your life. Do something because you feel it is the correct thing, or what you want to do, rather than what others have told you to do.

Each soul who has come to Earth to have a human experience does so by itself and has no obligations to anyone else. You owe your family nothing in a spiritual sense. But you owe yourself respect, honor, and love for enduring all these lessons in this situation and working within it.

In meditation, ask your guides to make contact with you so that they might hold your hand as you go through your transformation. The “God” you were threatened with in your youth is a creation of organized religion and does not exist. Source, Creator, Divine Spark – whatever you wish to call the originator of all things – is nothing but unconditional love.

Begin to see the magnificence that is your essence. Feel the love emanating from the universe down to you to assist you with your struggles. Know that you can become an independent person, manifesting what you need.