Archive for the ‘Personal Problems’ Category

Finding myself

Tuesday, August 1st, 2017

QUESTION: Masters for years I’ve felt stuck and unhappy in life and unable to figure out how to move forward with even simple things like what type of job to seek. I’ve lost faith in myself, even while trying to be more positive. My upbringing made me fear God so I have trouble asking for spiritual help. My childhood had emotional neglect/abuse that damaged my sense of deserving to get my needs/ wants met. Can you suggest some ways I can connect with source to help me find a gratifying life rather than just resentfully serving my family while out of touch with my own needs/wants/gifts? I want satisfying work using my gifts, to learn to deal with others with confidence and collaboration, not fear. I feel I cannot live this way anymore, cut off from myself and my soul. It’s like I missed the boat for my true
purpose. ~Christina, USA

ANSWER: With all your lessons concerning self-worth, self-confidence, self-love, and trust still very active, to radically change, you will have to start from the beginning. The first step is accepting that you are a piece of the Source energy that is responsible for everything that exists anywhere and everywhere. With that acceptance comes the ability to image the qualities you have at your disposal for creating the life you desire.

Right now, you are inhibited by the belief systems that were bestowed on you by your parents and society. As a child, you accepted these without question and never even imagined that you had the ability to override them and change what they made you believe. These are the automatic responses you encounter in any situation that presents itself to you.

To begin to defuse these, and write your own rules for living, you have to start questioning the way you respond to any stimulus. You need to ask: Does this feel right to me? Is this what I really want to do? If the answer to these questions is a resounding no, then it is time to choose for yourself the actions you take. You are then beginning to rewrite the beliefs controlling your life. Do something because you feel it is the correct thing, or what you want to do, rather than what others have told you to do.

Each soul who has come to Earth to have a human experience does so by itself and has no obligations to anyone else. You owe your family nothing in a spiritual sense. But you owe yourself respect, honor, and love for enduring all these lessons in this situation and working within it.

In meditation, ask your guides to make contact with you so that they might hold your hand as you go through your transformation. The “God” you were threatened with in your youth is a creation of organized religion and does not exist. Source, Creator, Divine Spark – whatever you wish to call the originator of all things – is nothing but unconditional love.

Begin to see the magnificence that is your essence. Feel the love emanating from the universe down to you to assist you with your struggles. Know that you can become an independent person, manifesting what you need.

Trying to make up my mind

Tuesday, July 18th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters my question is that I usually find myself trying to connect with people, although I am not stable with my decisions I change my mind all the time and I am pretty intellectual. I always try to seek for answers and things don’t make sense on this planet unless you take it to a spiritual level. How do I let my soul guide me on this journey? ~Maria, USA

ANSWER: Intelligence has nothing to do with making up your mind – it sometimes proves to be a detriment. When you have unusual amounts of input (information gathered from multiple sources), you need to wade through all the material to come to a conclusion if you are just using your thinking process. You get directed one way and then find something in the opposite direction that interests you more. If, instead, you rely upon your feelings for an answer, you are accessing your own experience without going through all the opinions of everyone who has ever given you advice.

The reason things don’t seem to make sense is that you are comparing the contradictory views of all the various contributors. When you convert your thinking into the spiritual prospective, you filter out the negativity and ego judgment and are left with the unconditionally loving evaluation.

Your soul is inside of you. Your soul speaks to you through your intuition and feelings. Remove yourself from the need to judge, and all other negativity, and seek to surround your life with nothing but love and understanding. Always ask “what do I feel about this” instead of “what do I think about this.” Do things only if they resonate with you.

Solicit advice from your guides and follow it if it feels good. You have freedom of choice; no one should tell you what to do, and a spirit who is of the light will never tell you what to do. Honor yourself.

My crowded mind

Tuesday, July 11th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters my query is regarding our inner self talks in our mind. I sense there is always many sides of a point goes on in my mind whenever there is some choice need to be made, hence this makes me confused about what path I should follow or should have followed. Can you please enlighten me how to relax and go with the flow when there are so many points of views in my head which are going on? ~Shini, India

ANSWER: Contained within your head is everything to which you have been exposed since entering that human form. This includes things that have been told to you, things that you have observed, and things that you have read. In addition, there is another section that is contributed by the unconscious aspects, including all the activity in which your soul has participated throughout all its incarnations of physicality. And if this isn’t enough, you also have access to communications from nonphysical beings, both those who are guiding you from the light and the discarnates if you allow them to add their opinions.

At the controls of all this information is you with your freedom of choice. You may determine what you permit to be of influence and what is just around for background noise. If you are looking for a way to pursue your life lessons and spiritual journey, you need to step out of ego judgment and into loving evaluation. This you do by rejecting any thoughts that come accompanied by judging, rating, or grading the possibilities they express.

Once you have removed the competitive suggestion, the next step is to run all the remaining proposals through your intuition, or your “feelings,” to see what resonates with you. There are a number of things you chose to have appear in your life, and these will be recognized by you if you evaluate them with your inner essence.

Don’t listen to what others have said because they are not in your shoes; they are not living your life. It does not serve you to worry about how some other choice might have worked out after the fact – just study and see what you learned from the choices with which you followed through.

Relax. Feel. Don’t be in a hurry to complete anything unless it feels totally the direction you seek. You can only really commit to one opinion at a time, so take your time to choose. If you find yourself fighting with an option, you have entered into judgment, so disregard it and move to something else.