Archive for July, 2018

Does parenting require a soul contract?

Tuesday, July 31st, 2018

QUESTION: Masters does choosing its parents for a reincarnating soul require a life contract with the “parents’ souls”? ~Marshall, USA

ANSWER: Sometimes yes, and sometimes no. When a soul gets ready to incarnate, it has decided what life lessons it is going to work on in that life. The selection of parents has to do with ensuring that the desired and needed environment will be provided. The chosen lessons of the parents may be in line with the child’s or may have nothing whatsoever to do with the child’s intentions.

A contract would not be needed if the child wants to experience the breakup of a marriage. That would entail a contract between the parents but not with the child. If the child wants to have physical, mental, or emotional abuse, that may – but does not have to – require a contract.

A contract would not be required if the child just needs to be in an environment that allows them to observe addictions, mental illness, poverty, or such. Most situations in which the child is born with deformities or disabilities do involve a contractual agreement.

The whole purpose of life lessons is for the soul to understand them and, using their freedom of choice, choose to reverse the effects of the situation. A contract rarely, if ever, includes the learning and understanding of another’s chosen lessons. Each soul, whether parent or child, is on their own in working through their difficulties.

Spiritual agreements

Tuesday, July 31st, 2018

QUESTION: Masters, could you shed a light on spiritual agreements? I know that there was an agreement between me and this woman to be romantically together, however she has opted for another path. I dreamed about this particular relationship my entire life. And without going into details, her choice changes my life a lot and forces me to consider other possibilities that I am not comfortable with, like non-traditional relationships (e.g. polyamory) or even a life without romance. If a soul agrees to a relationship but then opts out, how can the other person still have the life they want? For people with my conditions, finding a relationship is hard and I was relying on that person to be with me; I really want a romance. Would someone else step in and eventually find their way to me, or do I have to “just deal with it”? ~Melissa, USA

ANSWER: Every soul has total freedom of choice in all aspects of their human existence. That means that they may choose to change an agreement they made with another. It is impossible to get another soul having its own physical experience to change their mind unless they agree to do so.

If one party to an agreement chooses not to fulfill the agreed actions, the other party had some forewarning before entering this life that that might occur. Of course, coming down with amnesia, you would have no recollection of such an eventuality.

Your major lesson this lifetime was being able to work through difficulties once you had set upon a course of action. Your consternation arises from your having created such strong expectations and having convinced yourself that nothing else was worth considering.

You have fixated on this individual to such a degree that you are certain you had a contract when you did not. She wanted a life of ambivalence toward sexual orientation and abhorrence of pushy, controlling people – which you have become.

You are on this life journey by yourself. Nothing anyone else does should make you feel you have been betrayed and abandoned. You are the only one responsible for your life and your lifestyle. There are no absolutes in a spiritual journey – just infinite possibilities.

Step away from your “hurt” and evaluate where you are now. The only person you can rely on is yourself. There are any number of people out there from whom you can get love. You must, however, accept and love yourself first before they will want to have anything to do with you.

Also, examine how you define yourself: “Who” are you? Are you sure of your identity? Or is this just another expectation that is limiting you in life?

Hating your choices

Tuesday, July 31st, 2018

QUESTION: Masters is it possible for me to enter into the 4th dimension/ change into a heart-based consciousness/ reach enlightenment… (I don’t know the best term, but I think you get the idea) all while keeping my goals of revenge against my soul? I know it’s contradictory to speak about heart and revenge in the same line, but I have no other choice. To you it may be a wonderful experience to come to earth to suffer again and again and again, and later go to another planet with even more pain and difficulties to suffer even more, and keep this cycle infinitely, but I don’t want this anymore, really. Is that why we exist? What do I gain from all that? Would I be superior to those who fail to endure it? Sorry, but I’m not interested. ~E., Brazil

ANSWER: The third dimension is a duality of half negative and half positive energy. The spiritual aspect of the fourth dimension is reached by removing oneself as much as possible from negativity and focusing on unconditional love. The fifth dimension, union with Source energy, is where one is completely devoid of negativity and exists in unconditionally loving, positive energy.

Without a soul you could not have a human experience, because the soul is what animates the physical body. The human consciousness has little, if any, concept of the soul that is in control. It is only when in its essential form, an amorphous energy cloud of unconditionally loving energy, that the soul “knows” itself.

You are embroiled in the third-dimensional ego judgment where you are rating, grading, and judging everything, even those things about which you really have no idea. You have decided that this life and every other life your soul has chosen are all negative and painful. Well, let us tell you that you have had many lives where you have chosen enjoyable, satisfying, and pleasurable existences; you just don’t remember them while in your human body.

You have bought into all those societal and organized religious ego judgments where the poor little human is suffering because the big bad soul wanted to punish it by having it come into a negative world. You are here only because you chose to be. You chose the lessons you are going through, and you can either learn them and move on or finish this life in the same negative state you are in right now.

Enlightenment is “getting” the whole reason a soul chooses to go through Earth “hell.” It is forcing away the negativity, the hate, the need for revenge and, instead, choosing to accept that which is and letting yourself return to the unconditional love that is devoid of any negativity. Only then will you be able to achieve a heart-based consciousness.

But, in the end, the choice is yours.