Archive for August 5th, 2014

Finding focus

Tuesday, August 5th, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, sometimes it is hard to be who I am today (spiritually) and wish I could just switch everything off of the things what I notice constantly around me! That is probably why I love sleeping so much. Do you have any advice to give to calm my sensitive Soul when I am awake, to make my life a bit easier to get on with, feel like I am being watched all the time and sometimes it’s getting me down? When I meditate my Mind can travel so far that I can’t even relax then! Any advice would be very helpful. ~Sylvia, Holland

ANSWER: Your major problem is your expectation that you have to allow everything into your consciousness in order to be “in the now.” You are a hyper-sensitive being who picks up on the energies around you. What you have to do to balance up your life is learn to focus your sensitivity.

Start with separating the negative and positive energy in which you find yourself. Take anything you perceive as negative and block it from coming into your awareness. You can do this by surrounding your body in a white bubble of positive loving energy. When you seek refuge in sleep, it is usually to escape the negativity, which is like having a loudspeaker blasting irritating music at you constantly.

You are frequently under observation by negative beings because they envy your positive energy and want to feed on it. You can chase them away by intentionally sending unconditionally loving energy to some inanimate object. They will be drawn to that object to snack, and you can direct your attention elsewhere.

During meditation you will only go as far as you allow yourself to travel. You have not set any limits. When you begin your session, have an idea of what you want to happen during your trip. Do you want to go someplace to meet a guide to have a conversation and learn more about being a soul? Travel to an interesting place? Re-experience a past incarnation? You are the driver – you just have not been conscious of the fact. Map your destination and you will go only to that place.

Pushing all your buttons

Tuesday, August 5th, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, I have a ten year old son who hates to study this has caused a lot of tension and depression in my life. I am always worried what will become of him. This has strained my relationship with him and everyone around as I am always tensed; feel like breaking down as no one understands me. Please help and guide me NEED it desperately ~Dilshad, India

ANSWER: You are allowing people to manipulate you by being so intense about your son and how he relates to school and to others. You are so focused on your son’s performance that it is impossible to function. Your son is very intelligent, and it has become a game for him to see how frustrated he is able to make you. You see him only as a student. Look at him as a spoiled little boy who will do anything to get his way – and he is succeeding.

Others see what he is doing to you and they are trying to tell you. It is not your tension creating problems with people; it is your inability to see anything but his studies. It is not that others don’t understand you – you are the one refusing to listen to what others have to say or suggest.

Your son does not need to study as much as you think he should because he can do the work if he wishes. He has created a battlefield in your home and is seeing if he can breach your command center and take charge of everything. He has already captured you and made you a prisoner of war. You are at his mercy because you gave him that power.

It is time to take back your power. You are never going to be able to make him do anything that he does not want to do. Make his grades the important thing, not his amount of studying. Do not allow him any privileges such as video games, sports, television, or talking to friends unless his grades are at a respectable level. He will fight back, tell you he hates you, or he doesn’t care, but after a while he will want to have his freedom back.

Release the strain of responsibility for him. You can only be his mother, not the one who takes his hand and leads him through life. He has plenty of time to be a boy once he stops being the man-child directing your household.

Knowing not understanding

Tuesday, August 5th, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, I have a good life thanks to the teaching that is coming to my knowledge where I can do better in many situations, gradually I’m learning through the numerous lessons that I face on a day-to-day and I feel that everything is going well but I wish you could ask my guides and my divine essence what I should do to get more in touch with them, understand them and get to understand what actually I need to do in my life. I also need to know how I can take good things from the negative lessons especially when dealing with people because I guess I cannot even develop unconditional love for them despite knowing that this is important, could you help me understand what is unconditional love and how to live it here on Earth? ~Luciana, Brazil

ANSWER: You have a knowledge of the fundamentals of spirituality, but you have not understood that it is not like a religion that is going to tell you what to do. You can’t communicate with your guides because you think that they have to initiate the conversation or someone else has to ask them. It is your responsibility to decide what you want to do and to whom you want to speak. Then you simply address them and start communicating.

All souls have freedom of choice as to how they live their lives. No one else plans your lessons for you. Before coming, you make general plans for what you want to experience, and then as each area comes into view, you, and you alone, decide how to work through the situation. You choose the steps through each event.

Earth is the only negative place anywhere. The way you have your lessons presented to you is through negativity. You then decide whether you will tolerate the negative or put it aside and choose the positive. Only you can make those decisions. Your need to know means you don’t want to work to find what resonates with you; you want all placed in front of you with no exertion required.

Unconditional love is accepting what is presented to you. It is accepting who you are, what your life is like, and what situations you are presented. It is the ability to take judgment and throw it out the door. It is saying that nothing is right or wrong but just what the particular person needs to experience to learn. It is learning from the negative and turning to the positive. Remember, don’t judge – just live in the now.