Archive for April 5th, 2011

Loss of a child

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

QUESTION: Masters, when a child in a family dies suddenly and unexpectedly, why must we be left here without them and without any explanation? Can’t some explanation be given to us parents for the early departure?  I understand there was a plan and we previously agreed, but we don’t remember that now. Why can’t we get a little explanation or some contact to help us through? I know it can be done. I just don’t understand why it isn’t. Why did my daughter die so young? Was it for one of our souls’ growth or learning? Did she need this time for something she was doing? I just want to understand. ~Stephanie, USA

ANSWER: Your daughter’s body has left you but not her spirit. It is there to reach out and touch and communicate with. This is a part of a life lesson you—and others who had contact with your daughter in her physical life—planned to go through and try to reach an understanding of the pain. Giving you the names of all the lessons involved in this action would not help you understand them. It would simply have you pondering the verbiage. You also would not work through these lessons, and then you would have to repeat them in this or some other way.

The sense of loss, abandonment, guilt, depression—all these are lessons you need to explore. With each heartache that assails you, a lesson is saying, “Understand me; learn why I am here so that you may move on.” The explanation you seek can only be answered with the words “it is as you planned.” We cannot explain what you sought to learn from the event—the emotions within you are the explanation for the happening.   

Go into those emotions and ask yourself what you are feeling. We don’t mean the physical loss but the sense of who you are and how you are responding to the death. When you see a picture of your daughter and you get depressed, ask what is behind those feelings. You will find you are thinking about unfairness, guilt that it was her and not someone else, a sense of abandonment. You need to examine why these feelings are a part of you.

Unfairness is a judgment that everything should be the same and somehow you got left out. Guilt over wanting to keep what you have and let someone else go in her place means you want to control what happens. Feeling abandoned means you think your life is more important than the person who left, or you are not good enough to have them stay. This is your lesson, your life. In examining the feelings that surround you, you will come to your desired explanation. It is all for the learning.

Seeing what’s too close to you

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

QUESTION: Masters, I am in a relationship that has everything right about it yet everything so wrong. I feel like I have been stuck here for six years and it’s making me confused and depressed. To people on the outside, my partner and I seem like the perfect relationship, ‘best friends’which we are. Yet behind closed doors, we live in separate rooms and I often don’t want her touching me (even though she loves me very much). Am I in denial and simply not attracted to her? I’m scared to break up with her for fear that I am letting something wonderful go. I went through a very traumatic break-up 7 years ago with someone I thought was the love of my life. It was a very complicated love triangle that tore my heart out. I feel like she was my only one and that it was my fault that I lost her. Now I don’t know how to move forward anymore or let someone in. ~Kellie, UK

ANSWER: What we are hearing is that you have this old pair of shoes that are so comfortable you don’t want to throw them out. You also hate going shopping and being exposed to the crowds who might judge your choices. The problem is that all the support is gone out of the shoes, and whenever you wear them you cause your feet to lean in ways other than they were designed for, and your feet, ankles, and legs consequently hurt from stretched muscles and tendons. It is time to examine the whole picture.

You built a turtle-like shell around yourself 7 years ago when you were so hurt. The first time you allowed your head to come out of the shell fully you met your current girlfriend. She felt your hurt and has a need to take in injured and hurting animals, so you became her project. Her love for you is based upon your incredible need to be loved because you have no love for yourself. This need arises from your loss of sense of self due to your past relationships. Become independent and she will want to move on to another project.

You will not be able to work in other than a dependent relationship until you heal yourself. To do this you have to examine your fears. Go into them and feel why they are with you. Accept that you are a fantastic soul having an Earthly trial. You are as good as everyone else. You must decide what it is that you want and then, knowing you deserve it, bring it to you with your intention. You must be truthful with yourself.

Gatekeeper way-shower

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

QUESTION: Masters, I recently learned: I’d been at various ends of days in other planets and my job is to direct shocked souls to the lighted path for Home. I’m here on Earth precisely due to that. During regression therapy, I saw myself guiding souls back Home. It was 12th dimension and I thought I saw the Source, Sananda, etc. I stood apart and was given a special cloak for job well done. What was I experiencing? My higher self seemed to have informed me to gather up Earth’s energies and forces to strengthen myself in preparation of the END and guide other souls. Who am I, what should I do to prepare for that task? What is your opinion on this? ~Ratsa, Indonesia

ANSWER: First, you are a soul who has chosen to play a part in the transition of other souls from the Earth back Home. You have done this in previous incarnations; you “hold the gate open,” as we say, so others may find their way more easily. “END” does not mean the end of the planet but the massive ending of a shared experience for a large group of people. This may be from a natural or man-made disaster, or an epidemic.

To hold the gate open, you go through the same process with those who are leaving their bodies and in the same spirit form lead the way through your gate. To be one who shows the way, you can communicate with the departing souls and show them what to look for and how to remove the fear that is blocking their passage. This can be done in body or spirit form.

Gatekeepers were present in Sendai, Japan, after the tsunami, to help confused souls across. “Way-showers” arrived to connect psychically with lost souls and talk them through the process of decision making.

In your session you recalled an experience where you had assisted hundreds of souls home, and you were all together in celebration. Your physical step in preparation is to complete the life lessons you have started so their energy does not get in your way. You need to rid your life of fears and doubts and anything that pulls energy to itself. You must open to the communication around you so you may take cues from the group there with you. You are not alone in this process, but it is  still your choice whether or not to participate.