Your growth may cause fear
QUESTION: Masters, I have had problems with my husband. In my spiritual search I noticed I have changed a lot and it’s stressing him to realize I’m different now, not under his control anymore. Assuming my own power and take steps towards evolved light frequencies has made us apart. He’s even aggressive lately. Why to connect with higher frequencies is so difficult for the family members who are still living in the ego mind? What can I do if he does not believe in anything I do or tell him? ~Maria, Brasil
ANSWER: When you married your husband you were both very third dimensional engaging in the societal ego function of judging, rating, and grading everything that happened around you or in which you took part. You also deferred to his wishes thinking it would make him love you more. It didn’t, it just gave him a sense of being able to control and manipulate you.
As you explored your spiritual essence you became aware that letting go of the need to judge and using love instead made you feel better and lighter. You were releasing the heavy Earth negativity and replacing it with universal unconditional love which is a lighter vibration.
He has done nothing to move beyond the starting point you had with him. As you have learned to use your abilities to take care of your own power and create a world more resonant with your soul you have grown apart from your husband and even antagonized him because you long longer fear and unconditionally obey his desires.
Your choices have taken you away from the negative default energy of the third dimension and placed you in a position to seek positive loving energy. It is hard for those not on a spiritual journey to recognize the characteristics of a negative world as versed to a positive environment. The ego asks for maintaining a “right and wrong” world. This is in conflict with seeking evaluation of your actions and seeking love.
Each soul has freedom to choose the world it desires. You must make the choices about your future. Do you want to try to balance both worlds? Or is it time to find a comfortable place where you may grow faster and without interference? Neither choice is right or wrong – you must evaluate the path for you.