Reunion of sorts
QUESTION: Masters, I rediscovered a love of the past. We dated lifelong twice and moved away for incomprehensible reasons. I am currently divorced and childless and he is single and childless also, our reunion was wonderful and came out together, we love to talk, have affinities and physical attraction, however, we are not dating. I feel he has a strong desire to establish a solid relationship, but there is some kind of blockage. I’m sure there is a strong bond of spiritual love between us. What holds us back? ~Wanessa, Brasil
ANSWER: You do not feel yourself as part of the other’s life. You are from the same soul group and have been together a number of times in the past, but you never made any plans for this lifetime except to meet periodically so that you may see the different types of love that exist.
In this lifetime your love is just that of a physical attraction of romantic love and the companionship of sibling or good friend. It was not determined that you would have a deep, spiritual, sharing love. That does not mean that, if both if you so decide, you cannot create such a life in the future.
Neither of you has completed all the life lessons you planned. One of yours was learning to feel the unconditional love of your soul – to be able to love yourself and see yourself as whole without having to have a partner.
He has to increase his self-confidence in the decision-making process. He does not like to make decisions because that means he has to take responsibility for his actions. He hesitates making commitments for fear he will not like the outcome. If you both work on your own problems, you may find you have more to share and can create a more permanent relationship.