Living in your dreams
QUESTION: Masters I’m in my late twenties and have not been dating for many years. I’ve had crushes but no prospects came naturally. I know there are potentially men who have traits I like e.g. the intention to grow spiritually and learn from each other, etc. I’ve been abruptly waking up from my sleep around 2-4 am almost daily. I visualize him lying beside me and our conversations, how we would like to lead our lives and support each other. I would also touch myself the way I would like him to do so. Each “session” lasts about 15 mins to sometimes 2 hours (if it’s longer, it’s a more conscious sort of thinking- “why aren’t we together?”) I am aware that these are unreal and it’s interrupting my rest. I find it bizarre, why the same period of time so frequently? Is there a spiritual meaning to the time and why I am experiencing this? ~Jyn, Singapore
ANSWER: With your studies and spiritual awareness you understand the concepts of creation and manifestation. Instead of using them to bring someone with the desired characteristics into your life, you have created him in your dreams in place of a flesh-and-blood man. The primary reason for this is fear. You have very little confidence in yourself and believe you are not worthy of the type of man you want.
You desperately crave having a physical relationship, so you create one in your dreams. The problem with your plan is that the message energetically being sent to the universe is that you have this fulfilling partnership going on at night so you don’t need a human. It is time to censor your dreams if you want the real thing to come to you.
The correct start to finding a mate could be to visualize exactly what you desire, but if you carry out both parts of the relationship, your body and mind think that is all you wanted and you already have it. Take your visualization on the road. Go to places and meetings where you have the opportunity to meet and get to know new men. Replay your picture of the desired type of person so that it projects out from you like an advertisement for a partner.
Your sleep schedule is not that varied. Between 2 and 4 a.m. is when your body has rid itself of its regeneration cycle for physical needs, and your mind is wandering around for excitement. Your dreams reflect what you are occupied with while awake. If you read a book, you may find yourself playing one of the parts in a dream. If you are preoccupied with a mate, that will be the subject of your night exploits. If you want to change dream to reality, you have to do the leg work.