Gathering positive energy
QUESTION: Masters, please help me! I read in a book, Ask and It Is Given, that if other people pay attention to your manifestations they will grow. Does that mean that if I talked with many people about negative things in my relationship, that those peoples’ thoughts now might stand in the way of manifesting a better relationship? Or is it just my own worry that it might end that stands in the way? My relationship feels better than before, but I can´t stop worrying. A psychic warned me some years ago that my husband might leave if I didn’t stop being so negative; she also said I might save the relationship if I got happier. I do feel happier and calmer now. My husband doesn´t seem to have any plans to leave me. How can I let go of my fear and live more in the present? ~Erika, Sweden
ANSWER: We shall repeat one of our mantras here: Energy is everything and everything is energy! Incarnate beings having an experience on planet Earth are swimming around in a mixture of negative and positive energy. Likes tend to lump together, so the more negative you are, the more negativity you attract. When you speak negative thoughts, the negativity increases with each additional person who picks up that negative thought. The negativity remains, unless and until you replace it with positivity.
Since you are becoming happier (less negative) and calmer (more positive) you will begin to send off only positive energy. This will gather to you additional positive energy, which will increase and grow as long as you do not stand in its way by spending time thinking negative things.
Whatever has been told to you in the past can be changed by the way you view it in the present. Your husband loves you and has no thought of leaving you. Why do you insist on thinking that it is a possibility? If you “see” something negative happening you are telling the universe you think you need to experience just such an event, “please set it in motion so that I may experience it.” If you see happiness it will be forthcoming.
Since humans are all feeling beings, if you emit fear, those who are fearful will flock to you and those that shun fear will try to get far away from you. If you insist on thinking your husband may leave, you are giving him the unconscious feeling that you don’t want him around.
What you need to do is identify the fears in your life and douse them with love. Accept that you have a loving family and that you deserve them. When you start feeling down, think of the happiest times in your life and bring that loving positive energy into the present. Reaffirm to yourself several times a day how you are blessed and that you seek to exist only in positive, loving energy.