Bonding with other souls
QUESTION: Masters I recently found out that I’m pregnant. I refer to my baby as a “she” because I’d love it to be a girl. I want to ask you what I can do to bond a connection with my baby because I feel like we are not connected at all. Also I’m not in love with the father I don’t feel a connection with him either it’s like I’m starting a family with a stranger. What can I do to have a spiritual connection with these beautiful souls? ~Miamite, England
ANSWER: A soul chooses its parents based on the circumstances existing at the time of conception. The fact that you are not in love with the father was part of the equation known to your child’s soul. It wanted to see what would transpire during and after birth. It saw the possibilities of your decisions concerning staying together, getting separate spouses, raising the child together, causing the child to be like a ball bouncing from household to household, or having one or the other of you possibly disappearing completely from its life. Each scenario provides learning experiences.
It takes a while for a woman to connect to the fetus inside of her. At first it is like the invasion of a foreign body that causes all kinds of uncomfortable things such as morning sickness, food fetishes, and aches and pains. You are at the stage of having accepted that a unique soul is on board.
You already have a spiritual connection to these wonderful people, because all souls are equal and connected through the unconditional love of Source, who spawned you. What you seek is to establish a physical, psychological, and emotional connection with them.
Baby is aware of you at all times, so talk to it. Once you feel a physical bundle, rub and comfort your baby; be cautious of allowing it to be in a situation where you get overly angry or upset. It will be able to feel everything that you do and sense the vibrations of negative and positive energy around you.
Communication is the best way to maintain a connection with the father. Talk over plans for the future of the child if he is interested. It is important that you do not try to force him into any type of situation, since it is impossible to get another person to do anything they do not choose to do.
Your intentions toward a meaningful union are the first and most important steps. This will be a stressful time for both of you, so talk out differences and fears, and don’t be afraid to just be yourself in all honesty and candor. If he chooses not to be a part of the baby’s life, find a way to deal with that, as well. He is not totally sure of what he thinks right now.