Titles and expectations

QUESTION: Masters, apparently I am on the 2nd Ray Soul, the yellow ray of Wisdom in this incarnation. I have been on a spiritual path for the past few years (especially the past 2!) where I have been a little bit successful visualizing and meditating with my Spirit Guide, but I have been experiencing blockages with communication due to my impatience. I would like to know if my true Twin Flame is in Spirit guiding me and what lessons do I need to overcome to take that next step forward with confidence for the future? ~Susan, New Zealand

ANSWER: Patience, self-worth, confidence, and especially self-love are huge blockages before you. Trying to live up to a label or title puts increasing pressure on you. No two souls having a human experience follow the same path—each life is unique. Whenever you identify with something someone else has reported, you immediately give over your power to be in control to the one whose past experience you espouse.

Accepting responsibility for your journey, and letting that journey contain only what feels good to you, takes an investment in trusting yourself. It is very easy to pick up a copy of a belief system stating that if you do this you will accomplish that, and if you fulfill some intention you will be in a certain place. It just doesn’t work that way.

You will find yourself much more than just a “little bit” successful in meditating, visualizing, and having communication with your guides if you accept yourself and forget about the rest of the planet. You are a beautiful, magnificent, powerful individual. You are a soul broken off from Source and share that divine essence. Accept it. Believe it. Feel it. Live it. Use it. Love yourself because of who you are, and all the insecurities will vanish.

You have many guides who are attempting to assist you—your twin flame is one of them.