Do my wishes force action on another?

QUESTION: Masters, I see I can create my own reality. For example, if I create the type of love companion I’d like to be with, am I forcing self Will of the person that comes into my life? ~Mauro, Portugal

ANSWER: It is impossible to get a person to do something they do not wish to do unless they consent to the action.  You can manipulate another and appear to get them to do as you want, but in truth, they are following you of their own volition.

Many people do not wish to take the responsibility for making decisions, so they will defer to another. They believe that you know better what they want and need than they do. They are giving all their power over to you. Is this wrong for either you or them? No. It is all about the lessons each chose to learn.

When you are manifesting and creating your own reality, there are two sides involved. There are the actions that you are performing and the decisions of the other party. There is the possibility that all you have done is put the energy out into the universe of the type person you wish to attract, and that person, who is looking for someone just like you, is responding to the call.

The second possibility is that your call is heard by a person who doesn’t really know what they want, so they let you make the choices and get drawn into your desire. This is not wrong because their choice is to let someone else make the decisions. This then helps both of you get what you want.