Negative energy influence
QUESTION: Masters, my husband left me a month and a half ago. He moved in with my ex-best friend. She was more like a sister to me. I heard from her husband that she is having some mental issues and she loves to play games with people. I noticed that she envied me and maybe hated me. I’m wondering: is my husband coming back? He’s the love of my life. Shall I wait for him or move on? This week that woman moved to a flat with her daughter. I have a connection with my husband; I can feel his emotions and I know everything isn’t all right now. He is a mess right now. What will happen now? ~Tinttu, Finland
ANSWER: This woman is harboring a negative entity that is influencing everything that she does. Your husband has been enticed by this negativity because it is exciting and feels dangerous. He considered his life to this point to be boring, so he followed this adventurous vixen. He is under the spell of this negativity. What will happen is dependent upon the choices each will make from this point onward.
Your husband was chosen partially because your ex-friend thought it was the perfect way to get back at you for all the years she felt you made fun of her. She has a very fragile self-esteem and felt you could do anything and were always showing her to be a dunce. She is having emotional and mental problems at this time because she is following the suggestions of the entity that inhabits her. The one playing the games is it and not her. She is very weak, in denial of a problem, and enjoying the chaos she is causing.
Your husband does still have feelings for you underneath the negative influence. He will be able to come back to you only if he can free himself from the need to feel the excitement that his actions are bringing him. No one can influence him if he does not want to change. You are going to have to wait and see what choices he makes. It is possible for him to recognize the negative influence and choose to walk away.
You have choices to make at this time, too. Your relationship has been a co-dependency where each of you has been depending upon the other for decisions and actions you should have made yourselves. Take this opportunity to do an inventory of your needs and desires. Are they yours, or are you reflecting what they would be if your husband were still with you? This will allow you to see what you need to work on in your life.