Matching parents and child
QUESTION: Masters I’m 34 and have been married for 10 years about 5 years ago we began actively trying to conceive a child. It has been a difficult journey, but it has brought me to a beautiful place in my life. Although I still ache for this soul to be born I know that it will happen at the perfect time. My question is how do we call a soul to be born to us? Does the soul we conceive have to match our vibration? What is the soul that I will mother waiting for? ~Chelsea, USA
ANSWER: Whenever a soul decides that it desires to have a human experience on Earth, it first chooses the life lessons it wishes to learn. In order to have certain lessons, souls must enter into an environment that will assist in providing the staging for that education. For instance, to learn about addictions, they could go into a family of alcoholics; for physical or psychological abuse, into a family with an abuser; or for discovering self-confidence, into a family with a domineering manipulative parent. If all they require is a certain location on the planet, that may be the only consideration in the choosing process.
Sometimes the soul has pre-planned with one or both parents to complete a dual lesson between them. All parties maintain their freedom of choice, so at any time they may choose to stop or delay the entry of the soul into the fetus, or change their mind about even starting a combined exercise.
The particular vibration, or degree of enlightenment, that a soul possesses does not initially come into play with a matchup between parents and child. When coming into the duality of Earth, almost all souls, because of their amnesia, are affected identically by the influx of the negative/positive balance. And souls already on Earth may not have reached their potential of wisdom because of pending completion of life lessons.
In your case, it is well known that you seek to provide life to an eager soul. Many have “interviewed” you by accessing the possible learning situations provided. They have noted the conscious and unconscious aspects of parenthood expressed by you and your husband.
First things first, learn to relax a little more over the process. Enjoy sex for the wonderful physical emotional experience that it is. You can “feel” these unique sensations only through the physical body. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself.
When the time is right for all of you, in will pop the soul!