Sensitive to negativity
QUESTION: Masters, when I go to visit my relatives from my husband´s side, every time I come back I´m totally anguished and nervous. The next few days I´m like in a big black hole and I don´t know why. For example last time, the day before the visit I was in my center and I was feeling lot of love around me and I was feeling great and then it happened once again. I don´t know if it´s a place itself or people there? Do I have some unsolved case there or what is this all about? I´ve been married 23 years and have always been feeling like this. Can you give me an answer? ~Telma, Portugal
ANSWER: You are a very empathic person who senses and feels the energies of others when in their presence. You take on the negativity, despair, and unhappiness around you. Your husband’s family resides in negative thoughts, feelings, and ideals. Most of their life lessons include learning about characteristics that lead to distress, paranoia, fear, and unhappiness.
Negativity sucks all the positive loving energy out of your body and replaces it with dread. These people feed off of your beautiful positive energy and leave you in that dark place that you are not aware of—since it is everywhere with them—until it overtakes you when you return to your loving home. You are a feeding source for them when you come and they consume you, emptying all love available.
The effect they have on you has become more dynamic as you have learned to find your center. The more you find and build up your love and fill yourself completely with it, the more there is for them to take from you. The transition is becoming more and more noticeable. For example, being filled with love is like a normal body temperature of 98.6°F, and being without love is reducing your core temperature to 32°F. It takes a long time to warm your body back up to a comfortable feeling.
Your lesson in this situation is realizing what is happening and learning to guard against their thefts. Remain in your center, in that marvelous love, while protecting yourself with a bubble of white light energy that prevents anyone from entering or taking from your stores. Secondly, when you first detect that someone is trying to siphon off your positive energy, plug up the hole with love energy and prevent them from continuing.
You have no contract with any of these people to allow them to interfere with your life. With your sensitivity, take the first sign of negativity, stop it, and replace it with positive love.