Life lessons and connections to Home
QUESTION: Masters I had a tough life from childhood. In a nutshell my health really suffered. After 8 years of marriage I don’t have any babies. My tubes have been removed. Doc told me I can only have baby through donor egg. I was not convinced but now I have decided to go ahead. I’m scared of it I don’t want my family to know about it. Why all this is happening please shed some light. What is my purpose in this life time? My father passed away early this year, he is with you now in unconditional love. Please pass my and my sister’s message that we need him and miss him. Tell him to keep on visiting us we want to feel his presence. ~Chicu, Singapore
ANSWER: Earth is a place for battling negativity. You decide what degree of difficulty you wish to experience in a lifetime and then come into a body that will help you experience what you desire. The parents you choose, the area where you are born, and the frailties of your body bring you the lessons you chose.
The medical difficulties you have experienced all relate to how you think about yourself. You lack confidence, respect, and love for yourself; you don’t think you are worthy of success or happiness. You need to connect with your soul, the essence of unconditional love inside of you. The only person you have to please is yourself. Allow yourself to do what is necessary to be happy.
Just as you did with your father, you want people to tell you what to do. You hesitate to take responsibility for your life, and if others direct you, you don’t have to make any decisions. Your father left when he did so that you and your sister could start thinking for yourselves and be forced to assume responsibility for your lives.
Your father is always around you in spirit, encouraging you and trying to help you find strength. He wants you to know that you can take care of yourself. You are a strong person inside. Start to have faith in yourself.
A baby will show you how to have responsibility for another so you can take more into your life. Your egg, or someone else’s egg, or even someone else’s child who would not have a home but for your adopting him or her—it doesn’t make any difference. Your purpose in life is to recognize who you are as a soul and to help others find their way after you have done so.