Why the attraction?

QUESTION: Masters, I wonder if you can help to discover if this possible candidate for me belongs to my soul group. Since I met him I sensed some familiarity and I feel very comfortable talking to him, and I also like him and I am interested in him even though I have heard negative stories about him. I would like you to tell me if the attraction and curiosity I feel for him is because I was his wife or lover in previous life. I can’t mention his name for confidentiality and because nothing has happened between us yet. Could you let me know if he would be good for me as a partner or would he be interested in me?  ~Maria, USA

ANSWER: This person is not a soul mate, nor have you shared lives with him before. He has an active energy of excitement about him. He considers himself a “player”—that is, someone who can get others to do his bidding if he puts a little effort into it. He likes to have a chain of women salivating at his door so he can get them to do anything he asks.

He does not see you as a threat to him at this time because of the interest he can feel oozing out of you. You are someone he is sizing up to see what games he can play with you. His life is all about pleasure and satisfaction for himself. He never considers anyone else’s needs or desires. He can be a bit of a chameleon, changing to be whoever you think would be exciting and loving to you. He even starts out relationships as a meek, mild-mannered, needy person.

Your life has not been very interesting or exciting, and a union with this gentleman would definitely give you some excitement. Nothing is right or wrong in the choices that you make for your Earth experiences. If you feel you need to be in a situation where you can’t trust what a person is saying, and may be lied to and used, this would be a perfect opportunity.

On some level you have sensed this would be a difficult companionship or you  would not be looking for permission to jump in. We will not encourage or dissuade you from going forward. Much can be learned from this person.