Archive for February 12th, 2019

Getting what you want

Tuesday, February 12th, 2019

QUESTION: Masters I recently had my dream job pop up. I had experience in the field and did very well in the interview. I believed I would get it, even packed my bags to move but after everything I still didn’t get it, why? I used to believe that asking spirit, believing, and manifesting would work but now I’m just left completely devastated. ~Emma, Australia

ANSWER: You didn’t receive the job because someone more qualified was offered the position. You are not the only one in the universe and therefore cannot predict and demand for yourself alone when others are involved and there are multiple variables at play. It is like deciding you want to win the lottery and there are 100,000 other souls who all have the same desire and are working to create the energy to make them the winner.

Manifestation is a very real power, but it only works if you have control over all the variables in the situation. Having a single expectation, or any expectation, concerning the outcome of an event is limiting and often disastrous, just like this job search.

Say you think that you need a salary of 20,000 dollars and that is what you ask for. Then inflation hits, and you really need 30,000. All your expectations for 20,000, if they are fulfilled, would leave you wanting. It is always best to seek not what you think you absolutely cannot live without, but something better than your belief. Then the universe will provide for your needs.

Spirits and guides cannot make something happen. They are prevented from interfering with the living taking place on Earth. Their purpose is to assist with advice and possible alternatives to your single-minded direction.

Pick yourself up out of your depression and start working on that “perfect” job. Define the minimum of what you want. Then send the energy out to the universe for that or something better. And, be open to all possibilities. If you are thinking only of a specific job, and a hybrid that has much more potential comes along, you will not give it a look. But if you look at everything that gives you an energetic twinge, you will make the right connection. Don’t give up on yourself.

Need to know specific cause

Tuesday, February 12th, 2019

QUESTION: Masters, I would like to ask about dyslexia, in my case is it genetic or was it the result of a systemic loyalty? As an adult I was able to realize that my mother is dyslexic but never diagnosed. At first, I thought I had genetically inherited but a medium friend told me that it’s all about limiting beliefs. There are several causes of dyslexia and one of them is ‘Acquired’. Some very traumatic event happened in past lives or even in that one that makes me believe that I need to find out to make the connection and reprogram my cells, am I right? ~Maressa, Brazil

[In compliance with US law, the Spirit Masters do not diagnose or prescribe for medical conditions. Their observations are spirit-based and concern life lessons. Readers may like to review details of the Masters’ booklet/ebook on healing.]

ANSWER: Everything a soul experiences during their time in a human body is by choice. It doesn’t really matter what specific cause is used by your body to subject it to the dyslexia, just that you wished to have the experience, so you brought it into your life.

How you deal with the difficulty is the learning part of the lesson. Most of the time, the way a person works through their lessons is totally dependent upon the beliefs (usually called their belief systems) they have chosen to control the way they will interact with and react to their surroundings. This is known as creating your illusion or reality of life.

If you accept that the disorder is insurmountable, then you will never be able to deal with it. If you see the condition as something that causes you to find new and different ways to accomplish what others can easily do, then you will conquer it.

There is no need to reprogram your cells. All you have to do is know you can find alternative ways to deal with this situation – and it will be so. Your mother is dyslexic, as you have surmised, and your genes inherited from her brought the same scrambling of nerve endings into your body.

While it is possible to create a blueprint for your nerves that would erase the dyslexia, that is much more complicated and time consuming than working with what you have. This is not your only chosen life lesson, and dealing with the physical correction would delay or prevent your finishing the rest of your lessons.

But, as with all things during a physical incarnation, the choice of action is up to you. From a spiritual perspective, nothing is considered right or wrong.

Loveless marriage and dreams

Tuesday, February 12th, 2019

QUESTION: Masters I got married at very young age. I never felt deep love for my husband because I was in love with someone before marriage. My hubby knew it before marriage but said he will make me forget all my pains. After marriage I realized that he was a big bully, short tempered and used to hit me all the time. Many times I decided to leave him but couldn’t because of kids. I started living my fantasy life by day dreaming of having other men in my life. that kept me alive. I did fell in love with someone, but nothing worked out. I am still with my husband. He has changed a lot but from time to time his bully nature comes back and I feel that I am back to square one. Will this situation ever end, will he change for good? ~Nana, Canada

ANSWER: Your husband worked to make you forget your deep love by replacing it with a fear of himself and his actions. You were very naïve and vulnerable at that young age. You let him convince you of what you truly wanted. Your desire to have a family blinded you to the situation and you accepted that he knew what was good for you better than you did. You gave him all your power.

Your excuse of not leaving him because of the children is just a reason to not deal with something you didn’t think you could do. The living situation with his temper and actions has been more frightening for the children than getting a divorce and finding an alternative living arrangement. You are still allowing him to make all your decisions for you.

It is time to step up and take responsibility for your own future. Spending all your time in dreams is being disrespectful to yourself and those around you. Where are the children while you are in your fantasy world? Do you think they are in any better position than you in standing up to their father and facing reality?

Your brief contact with another potential partner was doomed to failure because you didn’t believe you deserved to have happiness since your power is still in the hands of your husband. Ask yourself: Who is important to you?

Your husband’s future is up to him. He has always been a bully because it is the only way he feels he can be in control. He is basically a very fearful individual but is beginning to realize he doesn’t have to be disrespectful to others.

What you must do is decide if you want to be completely responsible for yourself. If you do, you must learn to love yourself enough to do what resonates within you and not let others push you around. The choice is yours.