Archive for February 7th, 2017

Being bad is okay, so why be good?

Tuesday, February 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters if our world is a stage where we can play a good or evil person, be a victim or perpetrator etc. then is there a point to being good, kind, and loving if others can do evil acts and it’s ok, no judgement. I strive to grow more loving, kind, and compassionate believing it’s for my soul’s growth but if it does not matter what’s the point. How do we progress if evil is not wrong and if I am cruel it’s fine. I get we need to experience opposite emotions such as good or evil, pain and suffering, or its opposite, freedom or incarceration, – different scenarios and emotions to understand both sides and to appreciate bliss, but in all this how do we progress if we have no boundaries? If love is as ok as hate, cruelty as acceptable as kindness. I don’t get that. How this fits with a soul’s growth. ~Sue, South Africa

ANSWER: Every soul who is choosing to have a human experience creates their own reality. You had previously chosen the tasks you wished to explore by way of lessons, including family members, locale, and societal influences. Learning is accomplished by dealing with life situations, using your freedom of choice to select either experiencing the negativity-imbued circumstances only present on planet Earth, or creating a world of unconditionally loving positive influences that mimic the realm of Source – and of your soul when not in physical form.

The purpose for souls’ coming into a body is to see if they can remember who they are as souls. They try to bring their essence of unconditional love into their human existence. You are trying to do this. The only way souls can completely reach this state while still in a physical shape is to divest themselves of all vestiges of ego judgment. By focusing on what others do, you are continuing to judge their journey and giving it a degree of importance in your human learning and experience.

Each soul’s journey is an individual experience, and the only things you should concern yourself with are your own path and decisions. In former lives you have chosen the negative (evil) process, but this time you choose to bring out your inner essence of unconditional love – the positive direction or concentration.

You never have to like what other people sharing the planet with you are undertaking, but your spiritual growth must include accepting that they have the right to live as they have chosen. You have freedom of choice to blend the life you desired – a positive physical one – with ego-influenced judgment, but you must be aware that this hinders you from reaching unconditional love. The choice and direction in this lifetime are yours.

Why can’t I make friends?

Tuesday, February 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters for all my life I never could have a close relationship with almost all members of my family and this makes me sad. Even regarding making new friends I find it difficult most of the time and I always feel jealous when I see that some people have lots of friends and contacts with their families more than me. I have tried very hard to be close with people but I’ve not succeeded even regarding obtaining a lasting relationship. I would like to ask what is wrong with me and if my incapacity is due to any karma? Which are the lessons I should learn with this situation? ~Isabel, UK

ANSWER: You get in your own way by creating expectations of how you desire the other person to react to you. You fear they will not like you; they pick up that energy and think you don’t want them to like you – so they don’t. It is the lack of self-confidence you constantly battle that shapes your relationships.

To have a meaningful relationship one must be open, almost vulnerable, and be willing to share their innermost thoughts and desires. You are a closed book because you think others want to take something from you. You want all relationships to be on your terms; others share, you take.

You have a pattern. When you first meet someone, you behave as you think they would like you to behave. You say things that you do not believe because you want to please them. You judge what you think they are thinking about you – and you always see that as being negative.

All souls are alike. None is any better or worse than any other. You all originate from the energy of Source, which is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-creative, and all-loving. Since you are a piece of that Source, you have the same qualities and abilities. You can use these powers only when you accept that what we have just said is true.

Once you understand this and start to work with it in mind, you will no longer have self-confidence issues. You will not be concerned with what others think or do. You can be true to yourself and open to the contact of others. Inside, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You have convinced yourself that you are different. Now accept that you are not.

You see the way others interact and your fear keeps you from going there. That is what makes you jealous and leaves you feeling bad. Connect with your divine inner self and create the type of person to whom others will flock.

Don’t like my life plan

Tuesday, February 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters I was told by my angel guide that I was going to have a baby girl by this year. I’m homeless living, in my sister’s house with no money, and a baby soon to be born. The father is in the same situation. I’m tired of seeing him humiliating himself for a place to sleep. it kills me inside it hurts me a lot. We are just trying to be a normal couple and planning to raise our child together but seems like everything is going wrong for some reason. If I planned all of this before I come into my earth body, I don’t want to continue. ~Miamite, France

ANSWER: You and your boyfriend have made a lot of decisions that were only about you and what you wanted, heedless of what you needed to do to fit into society and be able to get a job and take care of yourself. The initial aspects of your adult life were a continuation of your sense of being privileged and needing others to take care of and provide for you.

You are now in a “poor me” phase where you are blaming everyone but yourselves and anticipating that it is someone else’s responsibility to step in and bail you out. Your sister is playing that role right now for the safety of your baby. Wake up and see your surroundings. There are many agencies who will assist you if you ask, but you have to be willing to commit and work to change your status.

The father of your child is not humiliating himself. He is being realistic and practical, knowing that society will not take care of you just because you want it to. He realizes that, since he did not prepare himself for gainful employment before this, he has to settle for the more undesirable positions in order to provide some support for his family.

You both need to wake up to your situation and work to create a life for yourselves and your family – and it will take work. You can no longer blame others for your situation. It is time to take responsibility for your actions, which have brought you to where you are.

And, yes, you did choose to find yourself in this state. You wanted to see if you were able to recognize the cause of your problems and to get yourself out of them. If you analyze where you are, you will see how to change and be comfortable in this life.