Archive for July, 2014

Stranger, friend, or soul mate?

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, I met this guy 2 years ago. When I first met him, I felt like I already knew him. The meeting was unexpected and random. We hit it off and the sexual chemistry was amazing, but he kept running away or trying to find reasons to push me away. His anger towards me was kind of unnatural too, considering nothing ever really happened between us to provoke that kind of response. Anyways, finally he left for good and it broke my heart. I think about him every day and I wish him the best. Everybody used to tell us that we were exactly alike. I just want to know if he’s my twin flame, soul mate, or just some random passionate fling? If he is my twin flame, will I see him again in this lifetime? ~Danielle, Canada

ANSWER:  When you met this man the energy between you was that of siblings having come from the same soul group and meeting each other a number of times while in body. You have shared at least three prior lives. You had not made a definite plan to meet each other in this life but your paths happened to cross. The magnetism of your common background pulled you together.

He was not in a position to be able to be with you in a family way since he was already committed to another. The anger he showed, which you felt was directed at you, was really directed at himself for being such a liar and fool. He was frustrated that he could not be honest with you about his circumstance. He was afraid he would be found out and lose both of you.

He thought if he pushed you away you would feel better for having ended it yourself. His hope was that you would forget him as he disappeared and was unpleasant toward you. He finally made his choice, realizing he could not live in two worlds at once.

While he is a soul mate, he is not a twin flame. Your appearance to others of being exactly alike is from your familiarity of energy. He did not want to hurt you by coming and going but was too weak to help himself and stay away. He is gone from your life, but if things do not go as he wishes in his current life he may reappear. The choice will then be yours whether to settle for him on his terms or wish him well and send him on to other adventures. You each make your own choices.

Is Jesus coming?

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, I read a book called “Heaven is Beyond Your Wildest Expectations.” A man named Richard Sigmund “died” and went to heaven and met Jesus. Jesus told him that he is coming for his people soon. I have also read this from other books of people who have died and gone to heaven too. Is this true? Will Jesus be returning for his people? ~Megan, USA

ANSWER: Jesus, whose cosmic name is Sananda, has come to Earth several times. In each of his incarnations he was a teacher, mentor, guru, and most importantly a way-shower. A way-shower is a very special soul who chooses to help less experienced souls to remember who they are and to help them deal with human life lessons and finding enlightenment to connect with the unconditional love of the universe.

Many writings have defined the tasks of Jesus; most of these also create the doctrines of organized religions. We advise you and every other seeker to take in all the information that abounds on the planet and ask yourself how it feels to you. Is this something that resonates with you, or just something you have been taught in the past and read of in the present? Have you chosen to select these beliefs, or is it a continuation of training from someone else, which you have never questioned?

Souls are composed of energy, the same as Source. Planet Earth is a duality of positive and negative energy within which souls can grow in knowledge and wisdom about their powers and abilities as pieces of Source energy. Once the soul leaves the Earth plane, it reverts to its nonphysical, energetic existence.

A soul can choose to take form similar to that of humans at any time it chooses. Earth being the only duality anywhere, once off its surface, souls are at Home in their unconditionally loving state. Most do not take the time to conjure up a covering that approximates a human body; it is more convenient just to be energetic, with the ability to be wherever they choose whenever they choose.

When humans dream or project themselves into another dimension, what they see is what they accept as true in their reality. If they think they are seeing a known entity, that person will look exactly like the image in the viewer’s memory.

The soul that is Jesus or Sananda has no plans to return to Earth in the near future. He does not consider humans to be “his people” but to be the same as he – pieces of the Source energy, similar to siblings.

Living with betrayal

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

QUESTION: Masters, I have been committed over the last two years to learning from the betrayal I experienced. I take responsibility for my part and appreciate the lessons of humility, compassion and forgiveness for myself and my partner. However, I seem stuck in a limbo where I look back and regret, struggling with accepting the child he now has. I strive to move on from self-pity, martyrdom or being a victim, yet this final hurdle eludes reconciliation for me. I find it such a painful lesson, I would value guidance on the best way to move on, since this is becoming an unhealthy obsession and preventing me from living in the now. As well as creating a circular experience where I keep revisiting old wounds despite the futility. I also struggle with feeling he has ‘got away’ with what happened, even though I love him deeply and feel the hypocrisy. ~Louisa, UK

ANSWER:  The one lesson you have not mentioned is jealousy, and that plays a big part in your dilemma. This revolves around the child and how it is a cherished result of the betrayal and something you cannot duplicate to return your life to where it was before the unfaithfulness. The salve of healing is unconditional love for all souls and the journeys they have chosen.

As deeply as you love your husband, since you feel he “got away” with something, you have not truly been able to forgive him. Imagine if this affair were an unfortunate financial situation into which he was lured and lost all your savings. Could you completely forgive him for causing you to change your living conditions because of lack of money? Since this involved your sacred marriage vows, you take it as ultimately more important.

There is no right or wrong answer to this lesson. You have loved this man in the past but cannot reach the state of unconditional love for him now after his deceitful actions. You have no obligation to remain with him. The choice is yours.

If you desire to return to a place where you accept him as the imperfect person he is, then you have to change some aspects of your life. First you have to stop living in the past. Concentrating on his faults won’t have any effect on them. You have to start ignoring the emotions that are only destructive and begin making a new life with the facts around you today.

Focus on your daily life together. Since you can’t change the past, see if you can become a stepparent to the child, who is blameless in this situation. The child’s life is going to be difficult because of the deception surrounding its birth; help it overcome the anxiety that will be present in the future. If you harbor negative feelings about the birth, the child will sense it and feel responsible; how stupid is that? If you cannot see yourself doing this, then maybe it is time to move on.