Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I need your wholehearted blessings and strength and advice for overcoming the problem I am about to mention. I am addicted to watching pornography and I am miserably failing at all my attempts to leave it. It’s affecting my vitality and severely hampering my spiritual progress. It’s like a parasite killing my spirit slowly. I want to fulfill my mission on Earth of serving and loving humanity, but I am scared I will end up wasting this lifetime also. Please show me a way before I lose myself.  ~Deep, India

ANSWER: Anything that causes a soul within a human body to lose control over the ability to stop a particular physical action is experiencing an addiction. Addictions are a common life lesson in the book of soul lessons. Souls use human bodies to have senses with which to partake in physical actions and to feel the effect each has on the physical nervous system.

Many of your life lessons involve emotional stimulations such as fear, lack of self-worth, and lack of self-esteem. The totally physical sensations you have, which include anything to do with the pleasure senses, are the strongest things a human can feel.

When people are having problems accepting themselves and their progress in life, they engage in something that will take their mind off what else is or is not happening to them. Sexual release blanks out everything else, and for the moment makes everything seem perfectly wonderful. That activity, done other than with another consenting adult, is seen by society as deviant. If you are still in the midst of ego judgment, you then condemn yourself for partaking.

You are feeling so miserable because you don’t understand the need for your addiction, and the addiction itself makes you hate yourself. Work first on accepting yourself. That is, love everything about yourself, since you are a soul gaining experience by undergoing lessons. When you can love yourself, you will not have the need to make yourself feel good physically because you will feel fantastic on an energetic level.

QUESTION: Masters, I have recently experienced a shift in consciousness and I now listen and allow my intuition to guide me. I am currently unemployed and have found a job advertised that I feel is meant for me as it perfectly fits a position I visualized not long ago. I will apply next week but the start date is not for another month or so, and having been unemployed a while I am quickly getting myself into debt. Am I doing the right thing by waiting for this position? ~Marianne, UK

ANSWER: Let us understand your dilemma: you have just manifested exactly what you want, and because of the timing you are going to blow off your perfect job? This shift in consciousness didn’t include getting out of your own way by leaving judgment behind. You are in a layer of vibration where your intuition will allow you to have the universe assist you with your needs. Allow it to do just that.

Go with the flow. Continue to manifest and take advantage of what you bring to yourself. Have faith in yourself that you will be all right without having to rely on the judgments society makes about security. Security is an illusion, because anything physical can be gone in a moment and you can’t take any of it into the next dimension.

Part of this next phase is to believe in your feelings. Get out of your head, which is populated by society’s ideals, and get into your heart, which is your true essence. Ask always, what do I feel about this? Not, what do I think about this?

Bringing in doubt brings in negativity and sabotages the intention you put into your manifestation. Whenever you sense doubt, fear, or a negative statement, immediately stop what you are doing. Go to that thought and tear it apart down to the point of origin, and then see that you do not need this interference in your life. Use your new abilities to move forward in a smooth fashion.

QUESTION: Masters, my husband left me a month and a half ago. He moved in with my ex-best friend. She was more like a sister to me. I heard from her husband that she is having some mental issues and she loves to play games with people. I noticed that she envied me and maybe hated me. I’m wondering: is my husband coming back? He’s the love of my life. Shall I wait for him or move on? This week that woman moved to a flat with her daughter. I have a connection with my husband; I can feel his emotions and I know everything isn’t all right now. He is a mess right now. What will happen now? ~Tinttu, Finland

ANSWER: This woman is harboring a negative entity that is influencing everything that she does. Your husband has been enticed by this negativity because it is exciting and feels dangerous. He considered his life to this point to be boring, so he followed this adventurous vixen. He is under the spell of this negativity. What will happen is dependent upon the choices each will make from this point onward.

Your husband was chosen partially because your ex-friend thought it was the perfect way to get back at you for all the years she felt you made fun of her. She has a very fragile self-esteem and felt you could do anything and were always showing her to be a dunce. She is having emotional and mental problems at this time because she is following the suggestions of the entity that inhabits her. The one playing the games is it and not her. She is very weak, in denial of a problem, and enjoying the chaos she is causing.

Your husband does still have feelings for you underneath the negative influence. He will be able to come back to you only if he can free himself from the need to feel the excitement that his actions are bringing him. No one can influence him if he does not want to change. You are going to have to wait and see what choices he makes. It is possible for him to recognize the negative influence and choose to walk away.

You have choices to make at this time, too. Your relationship has been a co-dependency where each of you has been depending upon the other for decisions and actions you should have made yourselves. Take this opportunity to do an inventory of your needs and desires. Are they yours, or are you reflecting what they would be if your husband were still with you? This will allow you to see what you need to work on in your life.