When you see the pattern change it

November 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters while my mother was alive, I judged her mercilessly, lacked compassion, and was relentlessly unkind toward her. 25 years later, I am now the age she was when she died, and have lived through many of the same experiences as she, which I judged her, and myself, so harshly for. My kids now judge me the same way I judged her. Karma? Since her death, I have focused on thriving, finding peace, working toward unconditional love. However, I still feel terrible how I treated this beautiful soul who was my mother in this life. Was this learning our soul agreement with each other?   ~Mary Anne, Australia

ANSWER: Not karma but following the example shown to you. When you grow up with someone treating you in a particular way, you think that is the “normal” way to behave. You took your mother’s mannerisms and duplicated them so that you were each merciless, relentlessly unkind, and without any compassion. Unconsciously, it was this same pattern with which you raised your kids – so they are now perpetuating the training.

We always advise souls that their life lessons appear to them as fears and doubts. You have come to recognize the disastrous consequences of the behavior you believed was normal. This awareness allows you to change the way you think and act.

You have changed your behavior since your realization, but you have not been aware enough to pass on your learning to your children. Sit down with them and discuss why you treated them the way you did – that that was all you knew to do at the time and have now learned there is another way to interact with people.

Inform them about the destructiveness of negativity and that unconditional love heals all discord. Help them put aside negativity and strive to build a layer of positive energy, peace, and love around them.

As you have come to accept, all souls are beautiful; all souls are the same. You, your mother, and your children have all chosen to experience the same type of lessons and knew that together it would be easy to set up the circumstances needed. Part of the lesson is that, with realization, a second lesson pops up, and that is guilt.

To alleviate guilt, all you have to do is accept that you were all in this together by your own choices. All have entered into the cycle, and understanding is the resolution. Your mother is cheering you on to see if, now that you have learned, you may also be able to bring the kids into the fold.

Reviewing choice = life lesson

November 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters I’m writing for advice for my friend and would like to know what her lessons in this life are so that I may give her some guidance and help her through this traumatic time. I am very aware of who we are and she is always having experiences of a spiritual kind. She is having a terrible time with her ex-partner who is stalking her and basically ruining her life. It’s like something out of a TV drama. She’s gone from a very strong lady to feeling her life is crumbling. Before this partner she also had a bad experience with her previous partner who was a conman. We joke about her attracting these kinds of people. Did she have a contract with both these people and is it a balance of karma from a previous life or what is her lesson theme so that she may help break this pattern of choosing the wrong man. ~Jo, UK

ANSWER: A soul comes to Earth to work through the lessons they have chosen; if we tell you what those lessons are, you will not do the work necessary to discover them and therefore not learn. We can tell you that those things which bring fear and doubts into a life are lessons – so you already are aware of several of these. These are not the result of agreements between the parties but the universe answering her desire to work through these events as lessons.

Loving oneself always helps with working through daily difficulties. Everyone’s primary lesson is to accept who they actually are as a piece of Source with all the powers and abilities that contains. When one deals with the same type of difficulty over and over, they didn’t understand the reason it was present the first or second time.

Your friend is so desperate to be loved that she shapes her behavior to match what she thinks the suitor is looking for. In the beginning, any problems in the relationship she attributes to herself and not being what the man desires. She never speaks or acts her truth. This is giving all her power over to the partner and allowing them to think that they have control over her, which has resulted in his assuming she wants him to continue to control the situation.

Her loss of confidence has to do with her still blaming herself for his actions. If she reexamines who she is, allows her innate powers to come forward, and starts to trust her intuition more, life will be totally different.

Listening to others affecting your choices

November 7th, 2017

QUESTION: Masters a clairvoyant said to me that I will sell my horse when time is ready for me and my horse. I’m sad because I thought that we will be together till the end and I thought that this horse is my soulmate. Is it really that Easy to see my life? Can I chance my future? I have been always with horses. Do I still have free will? I might Sound crazy, but this is important thing to me. ~Lina, Finland

ANSWER: You, as a soul having a human experience, have complete freedom of choice over what you do in this life. Nothing is pre-determined and unchangeable. Persons who have the ability to connect with the timeline of the universe don’t always get a true sense of the time in relationship to the present. There is no time, as you know it, in the universe – just here, because it records the transit of Earth around the sun. Therefore, “seeing” things may even come from another lifetime and not the present.

It is not easy to see the future because it is constantly changing. With everyone having freedom to make their choices, the future is not set and therefore not very predictable. Examine the statement you were given, taking this fact into consideration. If sometime in the future you needed for some reason to part with your horse, you would do so – but it won’t happen unless you choose that as an option.

Your horse is one of the 2 percent of animals who do have a soul and is from your soul group. You had decided to share a life to be there for each other in times of difficulty. There is no reason to part now. Continue to share, and talk with, this beautiful soul.

Remember, you always have choices. Do only what feels good to you; don’t let the opinions or advice of others sway you away from what resonates with you. This is your journey and you are the one making decisions. Don’t be influenced by the remarks of others who are not living your life.