Repeating patterns

Question: Masters please help me understand why this situation always repeats itself in my life and makes me suffer so much: there always appears someone who seems to like me but suddenly I know that this man has another woman, or he always chooses to stay with another and I always get lonely and feeling very rejected! Why does this happen? Is it any life lesson? Is it karma? What should I learn from this and how should I deal with this painful situation? ~Marina, Portugal

ANSWER: Some of your life lessons include abandonment, rejection, self-guilt and self-loathing. You don’t think you are worthy enough for a sharing, loving relationship, so you draw to you only men who understand you have such low expectations that they can simply come and get a taste of something new before they move on.

As you go through each of these cycles, you don’t learn anything or change your opinion about yourself, so the message you send out to the next man with your energy is the same: “Come and use me; I deserve it.”

Start working on an understanding of who you are as a soul. You are a piece of Source energy: magnificent, all-knowing, all-powerful, and able to manifest your desires. Until you can accept that as your essence, you will not be able to change the image you have of yourself.

Don’t try to learn everything at once. Take each emotional characteristic and see why you feel it describes you. When you understand what your beliefs are, you can change them by an acceptance of your inner power. After you have shed your negative interpretation of life, visualize what life would fulfill you. Believe that you can draw that life to you and, most importantly, that you are entitled to that degree of happiness and love.

Be true to yourself. Never do something or act in a manner you believe someone else wants you to unless it feels exactly what you would do if the choice were yours – because it is. Nothing is predetermined. Everyone creates their own reality. Begin designing and living your desired life.