Don’t like my life plan

QUESTION: Masters I was told by my angel guide that I was going to have a baby girl by this year. I’m homeless living, in my sister’s house with no money, and a baby soon to be born. The father is in the same situation. I’m tired of seeing him humiliating himself for a place to sleep. it kills me inside it hurts me a lot. We are just trying to be a normal couple and planning to raise our child together but seems like everything is going wrong for some reason. If I planned all of this before I come into my earth body, I don’t want to continue. ~Miamite, France

ANSWER: You and your boyfriend have made a lot of decisions that were only about you and what you wanted, heedless of what you needed to do to fit into society and be able to get a job and take care of yourself. The initial aspects of your adult life were a continuation of your sense of being privileged and needing others to take care of and provide for you.

You are now in a “poor me” phase where you are blaming everyone but yourselves and anticipating that it is someone else’s responsibility to step in and bail you out. Your sister is playing that role right now for the safety of your baby. Wake up and see your surroundings. There are many agencies who will assist you if you ask, but you have to be willing to commit and work to change your status.

The father of your child is not humiliating himself. He is being realistic and practical, knowing that society will not take care of you just because you want it to. He realizes that, since he did not prepare himself for gainful employment before this, he has to settle for the more undesirable positions in order to provide some support for his family.

You both need to wake up to your situation and work to create a life for yourselves and your family – and it will take work. You can no longer blame others for your situation. It is time to take responsibility for your actions, which have brought you to where you are.

And, yes, you did choose to find yourself in this state. You wanted to see if you were able to recognize the cause of your problems and to get yourself out of them. If you analyze where you are, you will see how to change and be comfortable in this life.