Every soul makes their own choices

QUESTION: Masters I ask for your insight into my children, age 24 and 27. A trusted psychic told me when they were little that their minds would be taken over by a terrorist, their father, and he would turn them against me. This has proven true. My friend also said that eventually, once they reached the age of 25, they would begin to question what their father has done to them. So far this has not proven to be true as far as I know. I have tried to behave always with dignity and restraint, despite their appalling behavior, and also to be compassionate as they don’t even know what has been done to them and I do. Can you shed some insight into the agreement we all must have with each other? How can I deal with this situation most effectively for my own well-being and sanity moving forward? ~Mary Anne, Australia

ANSWER: Since every soul has total freedom of choice to change their mind at any time, what a psychic or channeler can see, and relate to you, applies only to the direction in which all choices are leading at the time of the reading. Many factors have come in to influence the journeys of your children. They have not matured – that is, assumed responsibility for their own decisions – to the point of appreciating their situation. You must give them a little more time to decide to accept what they are seeing and feeling concerning their father or to continue to ignore it.

Your lesson in this lifetime is to be an observer – a witness – to the expedition that is your children’s lives. You already see that you have no way to control what goes on in their lives, and that the way you feel about this is totally up to you and dictates your mood.

Each soul creates their own reality by the choices they make. You can choose to be unhappy and miserable because things in your children’s lives aren’t going the way that you wish, or you can honor the fact that these are the lessons they chose before coming into this life.

What is important is that you not let their journey interfere with your own. Work through the lessons revealed by your fears and doubts. Release ego judgment and enter into unconditional love. This is what your trip here is all about.

You wanted to deal with lack of control, self-image and self-worth issues, and not letting the actions of others affect your emotional well-being. You have done very well with these. Your agreements with the family involved being the parent who was different from the pattern they chose to learn, and being there when the time was right for counseling them through their realizations.