Who’s responsible for allergies?

QUESTION: Masters My son is 6 years and has severe allergies to nuts. He is so sensitive to everything – dust, cat fur and recently developed new food allergies. It has been a stressful time learning how to manage his allergies and constant illness. My teacher says he is reacting to the energy of his parents. I try to focus on the positive but I am used to him being unwell much of the time, it’s challenging to keep thinking things will improve. Is there anything we can do as parents energetically to improve his situation? Is he unwell because of our energies as parents? Are there any other healing modalities we could explore that you might suggest? I would do anything to have him well and healthy. I would be so grateful for your advice. ~Alison, Australia

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ANSWER: You are dealing with a combination of lessons your son pre-planned and with lessons you and his father had chosen. In the physical realm, nothing you are doing is causing any of his problems. Your energy, when it accepts nothing can be done, is felt by him and also accepted by him. Expecting him to be unwell most of the time sets the stage for your existence and his concurrence.

In the meantime, he is comfortable with your constant attention because he rules all of your lives. You are all controlled by reactions to things that are always going to be a part of your life. You are picking and choosing what, at the time, you feel is harmless. He has no life but the activity around his problems. He needs to find something that gives him the desire to be able to get out and get around with others.

A lesson for you is that you cannot control things concerning others unless they agree. Since your son had previously chosen to experience problems with allergies, you can only sit by and restrict contact while he deals with his choice. Send him conscious unconditional love that his unconscious higher self will decide there is more to this life than the current situation.

For you, spend more effort on focusing on the positive. Find things that interest and entertain your son until he can be drawn into childhood friends and education. Any negativity can be felt by him and will hold him in his present condition. Fill your lives with positive love.