Love yourself

QUESTION: Masters, I am having a tough time with my partner due to the fact that he treats me very bad! He doesn’t respect me, calls me names for no reason, is very aggressive with words and sometimes it goes into physical fights! I am sick and tired of this situation and I can’t stop thinking about leaving him so he can learn how to treat a woman! I sense that he has never treated any other girlfriend like that but me, so maybe it’s my fault because I allowed him to do that, and now I had enough so I’m ready to end this situation and move on, I did nothing to deserve it! Please I would like some advice, what should I do to get over it. ~Miamite, England

ANSWER: Leaving him will not teach him how to treat a woman, because he does what he can get away with. He has treated each woman with the degree of disdain that she allowed. You are correct that his behavior is the result of your allowing it to occur. This is a series of lessons you have chosen. You wished to see what it would be like to be abused, disrespected, and treated as an object less than human.

You have no respect for yourself or you would walk away from this instead of letting it continue. You must find the self-love that is in your heart and soul and let it free  you. Honor the fact that you have chosen to place yourself in this position so that you might understand the lesson and move out of it.

No one “deserves” to be treated like this, but people may choose to experience it so that they can recognize the lessons and move on to something else. All souls come from the same beginnings – the energy of Source. You have to accept that you have all the power and abilities of Source in order to easily change the situations you programmed for this life.

Create an aura around yourself of love, respect, power, and independence. Don’t let another tell you what to do or how to behave. When entering into a relationship, tell the suitor what you want; don’t do or say things just because you think it is what he wants. You are just as important. If he doesn’t want to listen, then you don’t need him in your life.