Confusing love life

QUESTION: Masters, I met a man last year, we only stay together for a little time because I was very worried with his angry behavior. He complained a lot, was rude with me sometimes, but in other hand he was very kind. I was worried too to bring him to my home and my family. I broke up with him, but I liked him and three months later He started to date a neighbor. It’s not the first time this kind of thing happens to me. I have some fears about relationships, please, help me. Who is this man? What’s wrong about me? What’s my lesson? All my life is stopped for a long time. ~Adriana, Brazil

ANSWER: You are desperate to have a romantic relationship. In the beginning of all your connections with men, you let them treat you any way they want because you feel that is necessary to get them to stay around. You have an intense need to be needed. You do not love yourself or value yourself. The fact that someone can be nice to you ten percent of the time does not make for a good relationship. Demand a companion who shares and cares one hundred percent.

Your fear of relationship comes from being placed into a situation where you were someone’s toy, or even punching bag – all for the minimal amount of attention it brought to you. It is time to accept the fact that inside you are a beautiful soul deserving of love and care. The next step is to demand this before you allow another man into your life.

Create a series of affirmations of how you see your life developing in the near future. Affirm to yourself that you are the one in power over who comes into your life. Affirm that you deserve to be treated as the magnificent soul that you are. Affirm that you will not permit yourself to have any negative thoughts about allowing another to control you just to get a little romance. Take back your power and create a new you and a new world to play in.