Change in marital bliss

QUESTION: Masters, my husband and I have what seems to be a very karmic relationship. Our relationship started out very peaceful and in sync, but after 19 years of marriage, it has exploded into something I just don’t know if we both can get through. I feel like it’s spiraling out of control. What happened??  ~Toni, USA

ANSWER: Souls make agreements to come together on Earth for specific purposes. Once they have finished those agreed events they sometimes find they no longer have anything in common. This is what has happened to you and your husband. The beginning of your relationship found both of you assisting each other and learning a ton of lessons. Things then began to slow down as you had less and less need for the other’s input.

You are now trying to find reasons to interact. Since you don’t have any previously planned things left, you each are seeking totally different things; this creates a conflict. While before it seemed to be a seamless path from one lesson into the next, now it is a struggle even to find a connection.

Decision time has arrived for the two of you. Remember, nothing is right or wrong in your Earth journey. For each of you to continue to grow you are going to have to change, because your current activities are interfering with progress. You may have to be apart for each to find solace. If you remain together you will have to have an agreement, or ground rules, as to behavior in the house. In all things, each of you  should honor yourself and the life you are living.