What keeps a soul Earthbound
QUESTION: Masters, my question concerns a bereaved mother whose son died as the result of suicide. She uses a few mediums to channel her son’s energy and shares the information publicly with the intent to help others dealing with death. His messages contain a lot of profanity. Do astute spirits use profanity? Is he possibly being kept earth bound as the result of this daily channeling? ~Denise, USA
ANSWER: Souls who have come all the way back Home are existing in unconditional love and shun negativity, such as profanity or judgment, of any kind. Since this soul is sending messages with profanity and negativity, it is easy to see that he has not crossed over but is remaining Earthbound. The choice to remain is his alone and no amount of contacting him will help him in this discarnate state.
Once a soul leaves a body, what you call death, it has the decision to make as to its next activity. Committing suicide was not something this soul had planned out in advance. The young man ended his life abruptly out of fear that nothing was going right, and he was overwhelmed.
Usually the soul will return Home and then plan the next life to finish those lessons it feels are necessary. In his case he got extremely angry with himself as he was doing the act and fears he will be in trouble if he goes Home. The contents of his communiques are directing his anger, uncertainty, and fear at others.
The types of messages that he is delivering to his mother will not help others understand how to make their own decisions when they contemplate suicide. He is not the only one who is spilling out this negativity in these channelings. There are more discarnates who are using your friend as a soap box. It is fun for them to be given so much attention, and the more volatile the message, the more people are drawn to the words.
Your friend is in denial that her son would not want to remain with her so she is accepting anything that comes through. She needs to encourage him to listen to his guides and go Home. All his negativity will be sated and he will come to understand why he did what he did. He can then come back from the other side through channels and give his mother a message worth delivering to others. He will be unavailable for a short period of time while he debriefs the events of his life.