Out of the blue
QUESTION: Masters, I am happily married, but out of the blue a man from work has entered my life whom I feel drawn to. I have this strange feeling we have met before and I want to help him. He feels a connection as well but neither of us can explain it!! He knows I’m married and would never cheat on my husband, but will we be able to just be friends? Is this man a member of my soul group? Have we shared past lives? Have we met for a specific reason now? ~Michelle, UK
ANSWER: This gentleman is a member of your soul group. You have shared a number of lives, which is why you feel so comfortable together. That déjà vu feeling comes from connecting with the energies you have previously experienced with each other.
Your need to “help” him comes from uncompleted contracts from the past. It was a failure on his behalf, not yours. You do not owe him anything. He has made contracts with others to learn the lesson he chose in the previous life but could not finish. In this life he is not as aware of his soul journey as you are of yours. He just knows when he feels an attraction to someone and thinks that any attraction must be physical—mostly sexual.
You can easily remain friends with him as long as you do not allow him to suck you into his drama. For you he is here to define who you are and what this life means to you. He is pulling on your emotions, and you must see if there is a lesson for you— something that will allow you to see what you feel about romantic entanglements. His position in this meeting is to learn that not all friends of the opposite sex are potential sex partners. He is here to learn about sharing connections in order to understand himself and life.