Archive for April 21st, 2015

Control through behavior modification

Tuesday, April 21st, 2015

Question: Masters, For 2 years I’ve been involved with an organization that taught me to delete beliefs that are not serving me and to create what I want in my life. I have created many things I set out to create – I’ve done it with small things and now moving on to larger creations. I ‘feel’ the key members of this organization have said things like, “oh, this is what you really created…” There is a feeling inside of me that those things are not true – I didn’t create that situation in my life the way they described it. The courses are quite pricey and they keep wanting people to purchase the courses year after year. What is their true motive? I almost feel like they want to control me. ~Angeles, USA

ANSWER:  Congratulations for taking the time and effort to work on your life lessons, because that is what getting rid of un-serving beliefs is all about. This organization has an ulterior motive, though: MONEY.

They want to get you so happy with the progress you have made that you will feel you need them in order to continue. It is like learning to swim and then having your teacher tell you that it is necessary for you to continue lessons, even though you have learned as much as you desire, in order for you to be able to move forward and not drown when you enter the water.

You have fallen into a group that uses behavior modification, not spiritual growth with you using your essential powers, to provide the results you wish to achieve. In addition, they are keeping you dependent on your sense of progress by “telling” you what you have done. They do not want you to use your own evaluation or feelings.

When they tell you what “really happened,” they remain in control and make you question your own conclusions. Always go with your feelings; these are the determiners of what has occurred around you. Ask: How do I feel about this? That comes from within. What others say has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them and their agenda.

You have enough information to continue your growth and manifestation without anyone else’s assistance. Use your intention to create and bring to you the things you wish – you will know what you have brought to yourself. Take responsibility for your life and let others worry about their own interaction with the universe.

Lessons are overwhelming

Tuesday, April 21st, 2015

QUESTION: Masters, for me, it is not clear what role I have come to do on Earth. It seems that I have had traumas more than I can take. Abuse, rape, alcoholic father, mother with mental disease, drugs, much more. Now I have problems with my sons. What I should do with my sons? I’m in therapy but is it enough? I can’t get in meditation to the state that I can discuss with the highest self. Sometimes I feel that I have to give up this all. I’m so tired. Am I designed myself a new job and what it could be? I think my job now is too heavy to me. I like it but other persons (staff) are so negative and disordered. Where is my happiness? And can we get bigger department? This is too small for us. ~Susa, Finland

ANSWER: You have been to Earth many times and have done most of the simple lessons. This time you wanted to be challenged in a couple of different ways. Your ability to manage the earlier part of your difficulties did not mean you were finished.

Your first problems occurred in your childhood, and now you have the holdover into adulthood. The antagonists this time are your boys. You are dealing with it as you dealt with all other problems – slowly and methodically.

You are able to get into meditation, but you have yourself convinced – right now, anyway – that you are unable to. Start with giving yourself enough time that you will not be interrupted. Begin by visualizing a quiet place where no one can find you and interfere with you. Gradually spend more time each time you do this, and soon you will be able to spend as much time as you wish.

You are tired because you are not getting rid of the negativity of others around you. Any time you feel sadness or negativity, consciously push it aside and fill its space with unconditional love for all the hard work you have done in this life. Honor the accomplishments you have completed. Survival is a huge success.

You are overly sensitive right now, and that is why the negativity of your coworkers  is affecting you to such a degree. Don’t pay any attention to them. Always bring in unconditional love for the great job you are doing and ignore everything else.

Happiness arises from within. You have to allow yourself to see the beauty and happiness in you. Be very present in the moment, not worrying about the past or the future, just enjoying the magnificence available in the present. Love yourself, and that love will gather universal love to you.

From stress to panic to …?

Tuesday, April 21st, 2015

QUESTION: Masters, I have been seeking ways to improve my response to stress as I get stressed very easily and it overwhelms me. I’ve tried EFT, TAT and various books and meditations but nothing works. Taking your advice about how something feels, when I was in full stress mode at work recently, I took a few moments to sit back and go into my body to see how it felt, and the overriding all powerful feeling was one of utter panic. Intellectually I knew that the situation I was stressing over was pretty inconsequential but no matter how much I tell myself this, nothing changes. Having this new knowledge of the stress feeling like panic, I don’t know where to go or what to try from here. ~Lynnie, UK

ANSWER: Congratulations on all the work you have done and the accomplishments it has brought to you. You have a further step to take after the ones you already know. Once you have stopped and asked what is causing the stress, and you have felt the overwhelming panic, then ask the next question: Where is the panic coming from? Let your higher self assist you by providing this answer.

You will be provided with an event that can be a statement from someone, a situation that didn’t work out well for you, or an imagined barrier you cannot climb. When you have this information, you have something to work on with all the rest of the tools in your arsenal. Chip away at these phantoms until they disappear.

The cause of your stress may be inconsequential at this time, but what they trigger from your deeply hidden emotions can be devastating until you identify and defuse it. Take your time and don’t get discouraged. You have come so far already; the end is in sight.