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Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

QUESTION: Masters, I am having an affair with a girl whom I met 5 months ago. We have been together for 3 months now. I was aware that she had a past relationship with a guy for close on 3 years and also aware that she is still in contact with him. She claims that she is his best friend and that she can’t stop talking to him completely. Although she has done a lot to show that she is with me I still have doubts in my mind whether or not I am a rebound for her. You are the masters and I’m sure you can read my mind and my present situation. Please could you tell me if I should walk out of this now and not risk getting hurt sometime later. I really love her but I can’t see her talking to him.              ~Arjun, India

ANSWER: Your girlfriend is being absolutely true and faithful to you at this time. Do not force her away by the doubts that your fears place in front of you. You did come to her on a rebound of any sort. She and her former boyfriend thought they were in love but found their friendship was more platonic than romantic. They have the feelings of siblings and to deny her that friendship will alienate her. They have no romantic ideas for each other at all.

What is happening with you is a resurgence of fears from your youth. You frequently think that others are being unfaithful, conspiring against you, and making fun of you. All of these are indications of life lessons you chose for this lifetime, primarily self-worth issues.

To free yourself from these horrors it is imperative that you examine the picture you hold of yourself. Others can make you feel unworthy only if you allow them to by believing that what you are sensing is the truth. You are a magnificent soul that is as good as any other soul. Stop letting your insecurities see you as less than fantastic.

When you start doubting yourself ask what is at the root of the fear? What makes it so real to you? Do you believe it should have this effect upon you? If you do not accept its validity it cannot impact your thinking and therefore your life.

Take back your power. Allow only what you accept to be true to run your life. Tear apart anything that is negative to find out why it is around. If there is no basis for its existence then banish it from your life. If you find a connection between this negativity and something in your life, search until you resolve the negative aspect and free yourself of its effects.

Inner child and life lessons

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

QUESTION: Masters, I have had several dreams with a little girl about 8 years old (myself?) she has a white dress on with the high top boots and with braids in her hair. Could this be what is called my inner child?     ~Tonya, USA

ANSWER: Sometimes when one has a dream like this it is because they are having a spontaneous past life remembrance. This little girl is a piece of your soul, otherwise called by many, an inner child. When one sees an inner child running around in their dreams it is something they have frequently set up before coming into that incarnation to help with a life lesson.

An inner child gets fragmented from the conscious soul in many different ways. Most instances are from the present life where a traumatic incident has caused the person to break off a fragment of their self to protect their senses from dealing with the trauma. The inner child then holds on to the negative feelings and keeps the whole, or the consciousness of the individual, from having to deal with the fear associated with the event.

In some cases inner children may have so much emotional disturbance surrounding them that they prevent an aspect of the soul from uniting with the soul essence between lives and therefore the separation carries over into the next reincarnation. This is what has happened to your soul. In a past incarnation you were traumatized to the point of hysteria, ran away by compartmentalizing that fear within an inner child, and did not reintegrate during that lifetime. Your inner child is trying to get your attention to get you to work out this energetic prison so you may become whole.

To reconnect you must delve back into that past experience. This can be most easily done through a past-life regression, a hypnosis session tracing back the energy trail of extreme fear, or going into deep inner heart work that allows the terror to surface. It would be almost impossible for you to do this on your own since the pain is so deep and severe. Contacting the subconscious mind during hypnosis will speed up your soul retrieval.

Completing life lessons

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

QUESTION: Masters, is it possible for an incarnate soul to complete all life lessons in only one lifetime? And what can we do to “speed up” our process of enlightenment?        ~ Vanessa, Singapore

ANSWER: Your question can be interpreted in two different ways. Is it possible to complete all possible life lessons a soul may choose to experience in their Earthly incarnations in one lifetime? The answer to this is not unless they could live the equivalent of hundreds of lifetimes in one body. The other way to look at your inquiry: Is it possible for a soul to complete all the life lessons they chose for their lifetime, the average single span of a body, within that one lifetime? The answer is then a resounding Yes!

Some of the Ascended Masters spent periods of time on Earth that far exceeded the normal human life span. This enabled them to work on many different lessons – but even they reincarnated at other times because they could not fit all the possible scenarios into one lifetime.

To gain all the possible knowledge of negativity possible on Earth you must have experiences available only when present in each of the body’s possible sexes. Limiting events generally require physical or mental inadequacies, while manipulation requires above average intelligence, and physical experiences require a whole body.

Enlightenment comes when the conscious mind becomes aware of the unconscious non-physical aspects of the soul. To speed up the process within a life, rid yourself of doubts and fears, turn from the ego judgment of the physical dimension to the evaluation love of all souls of the non-physical spiritual dimension. Tune into the universe and enter the energetic flow. Give up control, the need to know, and expectations. Have faith and trust in your feelings not your mind. In other words, get to know the true essence of your unconditional loving soul while still incarnate!